I'd have been okay with two things.
I have a strict FOUR item limit for verbal instructions. If she wants me to get more than FOUR things, I have to insist on a written list.
Only one question - where do you work, that turning up for the day wearing JEANS (oh, the humanity) was a bigger issue than arriving late to actually start work, because you'd driven home to get changed!?
Do you have a work uniform? Or just an accepted dress code / culture?