the sun is a bastard......i can remember the worst sunburn i ever had was on worthing beach when i was about 4 or 5 my back blistered badly and now i am getting lumps cut out of it regularly.....sunscreen and a hat minimum , at best keep a full length sleeved shirt on on the hot summer days...
the phrase "unfortunately you have cancer".....the magnitude of which can not be conveyed to someone who has never had it said to them , it's like being smashed in the face and your bowels twisting simultaneously.
I'm sorry to hear about your husband EK , that is heartbreaking stuff.
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